Availability is an in-demand quality for daters.
That being so, if I am heading out on a date, spending one helpful minute deciding if I look, smell and feel available is time well spent.
What makes me available? The obvious, obviously: being single, solvent, sane and secure (in the sense of demonstrating confidence.) Doubtless, each individual has more specific requirements, but as far as getting to know someone goes, the big four might just be enough.
My question of anyone then is: Are you (really) single, (unconditionally) solvent, (certifiably) sane and (consistently) secure?