Subtle fits and sly moments of connection mark the way most of us find our match. Discovering by chance (or deliberately if you can make that work) the ways that we mesh or clash with other person are the fun times and frustrations of dating.
Avoiding the big stereotypes might help us creep into something successful. Or, equally important, bypass something horrid. Sometimes the best thing to say is:
I’m sorry. This isn’t working. Good-bye.