Happy thoughts and a positive attitude make for a good start to dating and coupling. Grand.
But we’re all subject to our own grumps. Finding that person who can be with us even through the bad days, the down days, the negative days – now that’s a goal.
Whether or not we, as a couple, survive our worst days – both of them – remains one of the biggest tests. But it cannot be manufactured. Yet another reason time is essential to discover our couplehood.