Accepted norms about sex and romance often fail to stand up to dispassionate dismemberment. Sometimes I find phrases that don’t quite undo received wisdom, but smell right all on their own.
A leading researcher believes a key component of lust is distance and difficulty, the tension of not quite knowing whether this new person wants to sleep with you; living together for years blunts all of that.
What do you think?
A nugget of platinum lies in there, both a question and an answer.