Along with a sense of humor, a feeling of playfulness might be the best attitude anyone can bring to sex.
I was reminded of this last night when a friend talked about (not sex, but in general) how the relationship with her man works:
We play, she said, which means all of the differences between us mean nothing.
This is a wonderful notion. Do you remember playing as a child? Play is focus without effort, indulgence without excess, and imagination without fear.
Perhaps sex wouldn’t be the only part of life to benefit from a little more playful mindset?